Category Singleness

Seven Lies We Believe About Relationships - relationships

Seven Lies We Believe About Relationships

In fourth grade, I threw all my Valentines in the trash. It was for purely practical reasons. I had taken off all the candy and felt the remaining sentiments scribbled in fourth-grade handwriting were no longer of use to me.…

Fake Dating - fake dating

Fake Dating

I’d been doing it for years, but it took me a while to realize it. One day I finally woke up to the fact that I had spent years of my life fating, or fake dating.  I can see how…

Why You're Still Single - singleness

Why You’re Still Single

“You’re kind of quiet. I wouldn’t say you’re a very loud or outgoing person. Maybe that’s it.” I had accidentally walked into some unsolicited advice as to why I might still be single. After watching a myriad of my friends walk…

Should Girls Ask Guys on Dates - should girls ask guys out

Should Girls Ask Guys on Dates?

Ladies, I’ve been there. You sit next to a cute guy and start up a conversation. You notice he has perfect teeth and he’s funny. This is going well. You start talking about what you did over the weekend and…

Redefining Purity - redefining purity

Redefining Purity

“I believe you carry purity,” a fellow student said to me at church a couple years ago. I nodded my head and smiled politely. It wasn’t the first time I had heard that. People often said things like that when…

Star Wars, Four Boys, and the Battle for Purity - battle for purity

Star Wars, Four Boys, and the Battle for Purity

Having four boys has taught me a lot about the world of Star Wars. When I wake up in the morning, I am often met with light sabers and Storm Troopers and Darth Vader… So when the latest movie came out,…

Creating Healthy Expectations - healthy expectations relationships

Creating Healthy Expectations

In this blogpost we’re going to talk about another aspect of dating: EXPECTATIONS. Ladies in the house, you know we all have expectation. A cute brother walks in to church, and you do a metal check. Yeah, you know what…

Am I Attracted - sex

Am I Attracted?

In this blogpost, we’re going to talk about an issue I’m passionate about. We’re going to talk about… DATING (eeeek!) I know, it can be weird, it can be a touchy subject, and Christians have all kinds of ideas and…

For Her Eyes Only - singleness

For Her Eyes Only

THE PROBLEM Our society seems to dictate that men pursue women and not the other way around. This can create a pretty powerless culture for the girls. Furthermore, if the girl wants to be a virtuous woman, then she must…

Looking For Love FAQ - singleness

Looking For Love FAQ

Question How do I start to value myself and stop having sex with people to feel loved?   The Team’s Answer   This is a very real, valuable question. We’re going to cover a couple different things to answer it.…

Breaking Up With the Timeline - singleness

Breaking Up With the Timeline

About three years ago, I stood at the altar, pink bridesmaid dress, curled hair and bouquet of pink and white roses. My friend since high school stood next to me, same dress, shiny wedding ring on her left hand. We…

I Ain't Into Making Love - making love intimacy

I Ain’t Into Making Love

  I guess it’s no secret now that my life held a sexual past. Google my name and it’s out, mainly because I chose to lift the lid off shame from my past. I confess, the main reasons why I…