Category Singleness

Single and Hating It - singleness

Single and Hating It?

There are a couple things every single person needs to know in order to thrive while single 1. If you are waiting on a husband or wife to be happy, then you’ve already began worshiping an idol that will never…

Diary of a Wingman - dating

Diary of a Wingman

A TALE OF TWO HEROES Let’s face it. If you’re a guy, with friends, you’ve probably been a wing man. I’m not saying it’s the best position to be in. In fact, most of us hope that because we involuntarily…

I'm 40 and Still Waiting - 40 still single waiting

I’m 40 and Still Waiting

Question Since I came to Christ, I have been praying for a wife. It’s been 12 years. My past is very speckled (including homosexuality and porn addiction). I haven’t had a date in 9 years and I’m coming up on…

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Part 2 - sex

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Part 2

In part one of this series we talked about our “sex needs,” followed by how to find our real needs in part two. This brings us to our last question: “So, if I don’t need sex, why does sex and/or sexual…

The T-Rex In The Room - sex

The T-Rex In The Room

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Here at Moral Revolution, we spend a great deal of time discussing our human needs. The body, soul, and spirit all have legitimate needs, too. Our bodies need air, food, water, shelter and human contact. Our…

Dating Dilemmas: Scanning the Racks - dating

Dating Dilemmas: Scanning the Racks

Are we dating or loving?Can we or should we be doing both? Are we looking to try on a ‘nice piece’ when we date, to see if it ‘suits’’ us, or are we tentatively, carefully and cautiously searching out the…

Blue Balls - blue balls

Blue Balls

QUESTION I’ve given up on masturbation, however, throughout daily life there are things that will arouse me and I eliminate those thoughts as soon as they come so I do not fall into lust. However, I’m now dealing with the…

Decisions For Tomorrow - pornography

Decisions For Tomorrow

QUICK FIX Single. Hurting. And independent. A great combination for masturbation. Or any sexual activity for that matter. Fortunately, my oath to singleness kept me from further sexual activity, but it’s all the same. A band aid applied to the…

Embracing My Heart, My Feelings, My Desires - healing & restoration

Embracing My Heart, My Feelings, My Desires

THE AUTHOR OF MY HEART Most of my life, I have attempted to control, stifle, and sometimes completely disown my desires. Unfortunately, when dealing with sexual desire and longing for intimacy, I was unaware that they could be expressed in…

A Man With a Plan - healing & restoration

A Man With a Plan

WORTH WAITING FOR Before I knew my wife, I had a couple of serious relationships. Since I was a child, I knew I would not give away my virginity to anyone except my wife, so that part of purity was…