Category Singleness

Risk > List - dating

Risk > List

END LISTING When people ask me what I look for in a woman, I find myself stumbling over my words. What they really want to hear is my list, but whenever I forget to mention physical qualities I’m labeled “holy…

Waiting for Mr. Right - singleness

Waiting for Mr. Right

All the single ladies, put your hands up!   Oh hay, I see you wavin’ your hands over there like you just don’t care (even though I know you totally do). Don’t you worry baby girl, even when you feel totally invisible to…

7 Sure-Fire Ways to Get Over Your Ex - healing & restoration

7 Sure-Fire Ways to Get Over Your Ex

Dumped We’ve all been there. It starts off with a, “Hey! We really need to talk.” Then a few minutes pass and you’re confronted with this awkward pseudo-question, “But I hope we can still be friends…?” Ugh! This isn’t another post…

When Distraction is a Good Thing - pornography

When Distraction is a Good Thing

Ok. Here’s the truth. I don’t like going to the gym. I don’t like running. I don’t like exercise. But I have a high value for staying fit. Weird. Let me explain. I’ve always been athletic. All through my school…

Passivity, Lust and Why I Like Country Music (Part 1) - sex

Passivity, Lust and Why I Like Country Music (Part 1)

Many single women ask these questions: What’s wrong with me? Why won’t anyone pursue me? Once upon a time, I asked the same questions. Though I’m now happily married, I endured (what felt like) a lengthy single season; I was…

Single and Hating It - singleness

Single and Hating It?

There are a couple things every single person needs to know in order to thrive while single 1. If you are waiting on a husband or wife to be happy, then you’ve already began worshiping an idol that will never…

Diary of a Wingman - dating

Diary of a Wingman

A TALE OF TWO HEROES Let’s face it. If you’re a guy, with friends, you’ve probably been a wing man. I’m not saying it’s the best position to be in. In fact, most of us hope that because we involuntarily…

I'm 40 and Still Waiting - 40 still single waiting

I’m 40 and Still Waiting

Question Since I came to Christ, I have been praying for a wife. It’s been 12 years. My past is very speckled (including homosexuality and porn addiction). I haven’t had a date in 9 years and I’m coming up on…

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Part 2 - sex

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Part 2

In part one of this series we talked about our “sex needs,” followed by how to find our real needs in part two. This brings us to our last question: “So, if I don’t need sex, why does sex and/or sexual…

The T-Rex In The Room - sex

The T-Rex In The Room

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Here at Moral Revolution, we spend a great deal of time discussing our human needs. The body, soul, and spirit all have legitimate needs, too. Our bodies need air, food, water, shelter and human contact. Our…

Dating Dilemmas: Scanning the Racks - dating

Dating Dilemmas: Scanning the Racks

Are we dating or loving?Can we or should we be doing both? Are we looking to try on a ‘nice piece’ when we date, to see if it ‘suits’’ us, or are we tentatively, carefully and cautiously searching out the…