When to Define the Relationship (And How to Actually Have the Conversation)
There is no magic number of dates. The signal that it is time to define the relationship is simpler than that, and most people are already past it.
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How to Get a Christian Guy to Ask You Out (Without Chasing Him)
If Christian guys are not asking you out, it is usually not passivity on their end. It is that they cannot tell you are interested. Being pursued is a skill, and you can learn it.
How Christians Should ACTUALLY Pursue Someone They Like
Pursuit is not a personality trait. It is a skill, and so is being pursued. What it looks like to pursue someone well and to receive pursuit without games, mixed signals, or passivity.
What ‘Men Are Visual’ Actually Means (And What It Doesn’t)
Everyone says men are visual. Almost nobody explains it. Here is what it actually means, where the line is, and what it was never meant to excuse.
How to End a Situationship With Integrity (4 Honest Ways Out)
Ending a situationship takes the one thing it was built to avoid: clarity. Here are 4 honest ways out and how to actually have the DTR conversation.
7 Signs You’re in a Situationship (Not Just Friends)
You call it a friendship, but you text every day and you'd be crushed if they dated someone else. Here are 7 signs you're actually in a situationship.
Are You ‘Just Friends’ or Are You Lying to Yourself?
The undefined "friendship" that works like dating without the clarity or commitment. How to know if you're in a situationship and what to do about it.
What Christian Men Are Insecure About in Dating (That Women Rarely See)
Men look confident on the outside, but single Christian men get honest about the insecurities women rarely see, from am I enough to fear of rejection, vulnerability, and body image.
Should a Christian Woman Make the First Move? What Single Christian Men Say
Should a Christian woman make the first move, or wait to be pursued? Single Christian men get honest about what they actually want and why it is not a simple yes or no.
Asking Christian Men What They WISH Christian Women Knew
Single Christian men get honest about pursuit, leading someone on, insecurities, a woman's past, and where they draw the line physically, in this Part 2 Q&A.
Why You Get the Ick (And What It Actually Says About You)
The ick is rarely about them. Most of the time, it is about you. Here is the real psychology behind why you get the ick and what to do about it.
Real Christian Answers To AWKWARD Relationship Questions
Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy who gropes you? Why didn't Jesus get married? Daniel and Elles answer 10 of the most awkward Christian relationship questions.