Category Singleness

Blue Balls - blue balls

Blue Balls

QUESTION I’ve given up on masturbation, however, throughout daily life there are things that will arouse me and I eliminate those thoughts as soon as they come so I do not fall into lust. However, I’m now dealing with the…

Decisions For Tomorrow - pornography

Decisions For Tomorrow

QUICK FIX Single. Hurting. And independent. A great combination for masturbation. Or any sexual activity for that matter. Fortunately, my oath to singleness kept me from further sexual activity, but it’s all the same. A band aid applied to the…

Embracing My Heart, My Feelings, My Desires - healing & restoration

Embracing My Heart, My Feelings, My Desires

THE AUTHOR OF MY HEART Most of my life, I have attempted to control, stifle, and sometimes completely disown my desires. Unfortunately, when dealing with sexual desire and longing for intimacy, I was unaware that they could be expressed in…

A Man With a Plan - healing & restoration

A Man With a Plan

WORTH WAITING FOR Before I knew my wife, I had a couple of serious relationships. Since I was a child, I knew I would not give away my virginity to anyone except my wife, so that part of purity was…