The Bag
Pressure and Protection I sat in my buddy’s living room watching FUSE. At this point, I was a still a virgin but I had become very aware of the opposite sex. My buddy, Tim, went into his older brother’s room to…
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Passivity, Lust and Why I Like Country Music (Part 1)
Many single women ask these questions: What’s wrong with me? Why won’t anyone pursue me? Once upon a time, I asked the same questions. Though I’m now happily married, I endured (what felt like) a lengthy single season; I was…
Passivity, Lust and Why I Like Country Music (Part 2)
We’ve been taught to flee sexual immorality (see: 1 Cor 6:18), and rightly so! We’ve learned to guard our hearts, to make covenants our eyes and to cut off anything that causes us to sin. But, we haven’t learned to…
There’s More to Grey Than Black and White
50 Shades of Grey romanticizes a nightmare of violence and abuse that many only wish they could escape. Even some in favor of consentual BDSM practices are remarking that 50 Shades depicts rape, manipulation, control and violent abuse. Why then, is…
Opportunities for Victims of Sex Trafficking
WHAT CAN I DO? Sex Trafficking. The ripple effect is so wide spread that it can be difficult to find a part to play in the abolition of the slave trade. One looks at the approx 27 million men, women…
How Much Sex Talk Is Healthy?
QUESTION My boyfriend and I are talking a lot about sex and I also have a lot of sexual thoughts. I feel guilty about it because I don’t think it is what God would like. How normal is this? …
The 23 Year Old Virgin
“A 23 Year Old What?” A 23 year old virgin. How would you describe me? Desirable? Attractive? Pathetic? Inexperienced? Mature? Lucky? Wise? I guess this probably depends on your thoughts about virginity. Or maybe on your experience. Maybe you’re still…
Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Part 2
In part one of this series we talked about our “sex needs,” followed by how to find our real needs in part two. This brings us to our last question: “So, if I don’t need sex, why does sex and/or sexual…
Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way
Let’s be honest: When we ask, “How do I get my needs met in a healthy way?” what we’re probably really asking is: “How do I fulfill my sexual desire in a way that is satisfying, but not sinful?” And…
The T-Rex In The Room
Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Here at Moral Revolution, we spend a great deal of time discussing our human needs. The body, soul, and spirit all have legitimate needs, too. Our bodies need air, food, water, shelter and human contact. Our…
Who Cares If I’m A Virgin?
“Why should I be a virgin anyway?” “It’s my life so who cares?” These are questions that ran through my mind as a young teenage girl…all of which were left unanswered, for me to figure out by myself. I had…
The Marriage Myth
Let’s demystify something real quick: Sexual purity is not a “single-person” problem. It is a human problem. If you have a sex drive, you need to learn how to manage it healthfully. This is a fact that I am very…