Between the Sheets: Sleep and Your Sex Drive
We all need a bedtime. I’m married with four kids and I have a bedtime. It’s ten o’clock every night. Why? I know myself, and I know what I need. When I make sure to take care of myself and…
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I Ain’t Into Making Love
I guess it’s no secret now that my life held a sexual past. Google my name and it’s out, mainly because I chose to lift the lid off shame from my past. I confess, the main reasons why I…
Pornography & Chick Flicks
Question Are chick flicks and romantic comedies a pseudo-source for meeting emotional needs for a woman, in the same way that pornography is a pseudo-source for meeting the need for intimacy for a man? And do romantic comedies create…
Riches to Rags, Rags to Riches
I went to high school in the early ’70s in the midst of the so-called Sexual Revolution. The motto of our times was, “If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with.”1 Of course, this…
4 Ways to Subdue the Strongholds of Shame
As discussed in previous blogs (Silencing Shame and Disconnecting Shame), shame is feeling unworthy. Guilt says, “I did a bad thing,” while shame says, “I am bad.” Shame has many faces, conveying varying messages of ill being, coaxing its…
Finding Our Story Again
God creates a man and a woman in His own image, places them together in a wild garden, and blesses them to enjoy forever the goodness of His creation. Adam sings and Eve dances into his arms. Within the…
Pt. 3: The White Knuckle Approach To Purity
In case you missed part 1 and part 2 of this series, let’s do a quick recap: At Moral Revolution we’ve come to find that there are three main environments in which we learn about sex. We call them…
Pt. 2: Overthinking A Simple Encounter
In the first part of this series, we discovered that sex may not be what we think it is. Or at least, we might not be thinking about it in a healthy way. So many of us are looking…
Keeping Something Hidden Doesn’t Make it Pure
Many of us clicked on this article in search of truth on the topic of sex. Some of us are excited, others desperate, some just plain curious. We’re ready to absorb facts, find freedom, and walk away, forever changed……
The Psychology of Abstinence
Abstinence is about more than just saving yourself for marriage or protecting yourself from a STD, or unplanned pregnancy. It’s not some old-fashioned religious idea either. Abstinence is a way of life. It’s a choice that teaches self-control and self…
Deeper Than Skin
“Kiss me and kiss me again, for your love is sweeter than wine.” Song of Songs 1:2 I’ll never forget the first time I saw my wife Erica drive onto our college campus. It was fall semester of our sophomore year. She was…
Molested As A Child: Seeking Healing
Question Is it normal to be molested? I was forced to do sexual things as a child. I have only mentioned it to two people, both times I felt foolish for saying anything. I was left feeling like this…