Category Sex

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Why Don’t I Want Sex Even After Getting Married?

Not wanting sex after marriage is more common than most people admit, and it's almost always rooted in unprocessed pain or trauma. If your body shuts down sexually after saying "I do," that's not a character flaw. It's a signal…

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AI Pornography: Why It’s More Dangerous Than Regular Porn

AI-generated pornography isn't safer just because no real person is on camera. It's arguably more dangerous. It creates a synthetic "perfect" partner, rewires your arousal patterns around something that doesn't exist, and puts you in a god-like position where you…

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Should Christians Watch TV Shows with Sex Scenes?

You will never have authority over the things that you're entertained by. If a show, book, or series feeds your flesh more than your spirit, it doesn't matter how popular it is. The question isn't whether you're "allowed" to watch…

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Why Your Sexual Struggles Might Not Be a Sex Problem

Your sexual sin probably isn’t about sex. It’s about a need you haven’t named, a pain you haven’t processed, or a void you’re trying to fill. Understanding this shift is what moves you from shame-based management to actual healing. The…

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Virginity Isn’t Purity: Why the Church Got It Wrong

Virginity is not the same as purity. You can be a virgin and have a completely impure heart. You can have lost your virginity and be walking in deep, genuine purity before God. When the church reduces purity to a…

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The Invisible Effects of Sex Before Marriage?

QUESTION What are some of the effects of sex before marriage? THE TEAM’S ANSWER We know what you’re probably expecting from an article like this– Yes, sex before marriage can lead to unplanned pregnancy. Yes, it can lead to sexually…

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7 Signs of an Unhealthy Soul Tie

Sex is a tridimensional experience: spirit, soul, and body. Anytime you have sex with a person you bond with them. Two people may decide to have sex ‘just for the fun of it,’ yet something is occurring on another level that they might not have decided on at all: sex is enhancing an emotional bond between them whether they want it or not. This is what we call soul ties.

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Sex After Divorce

The world defines intimacy as a sexual encounter, to be 'intimate' with someone. But really, casual sex encounters have no intimacy in them, and I would argue that any sexual encounters outside of a marriage hold very little intimacy, if any.