In the most sexualized culture to date, outside (and even inside) the church community, it’s almost scandalous to suggest that you’re saving yourself until marriage. People privy to this information open their eyes to your sentiments as if you’ve just popped…
Do you know how important timing is in God’s plan? All throughout the Bible we see examples of God’s instructions being specific in action and timing. Our lives are designed in the same way and part of succeeding is knowing…
How do I show love and acceptance to my sister (a Christian) who is sleeping with her boyfriend (not a Christian) and on the other hand show her that I don’t agree with her lifestyle? First of all, I…
With God and A Sex Drive I’m a Christian with a sex drive. Growing up, I believed the highest form of piety was giving up your sex drive… Completely! To never look at anyone of the opposite, or the Lord…
Pressure and Protection I sat in my buddy’s living room watching FUSE. At this point, I was a still a virgin but I had become very aware of the opposite sex. My buddy, Tim, went into his older brother’s room to…
LIES vs TRUTH There are mindsets that many people in the church are walking around with that labels dating as “unhealthy”. We want to expose the common lies that come out of this mindset, and replace it with truth and scripture.…
Many single women ask these questions: What’s wrong with me? Why won’t anyone pursue me? Once upon a time, I asked the same questions. Though I’m now happily married, I endured (what felt like) a lengthy single season; I was…
We’ve been taught to flee sexual immorality (see: 1 Cor 6:18), and rightly so! We’ve learned to guard our hearts, to make covenants our eyes and to cut off anything that causes us to sin. But, we haven’t learned to…
What did desire drive Jesus to do? Desire drove Jesus to seek and save His lost Bride. It drove Him to give up His position as Almighty God to come to Earth as a vulnerable man. It drove Him to…
Should I even consider pursuing a girl who has pain and possible trauma from her past? Let me explain: she was bullied, hated, raped and suicidal. If she has not been completely healed from all the inner wounds yet, what…
Do you say or do things without thinking how it will affect or impact the people around you? The dictionary definition of self-awareness is “conscious knowledge of one’s own character, feelings, motives, and desires.” I also believe it’s having a…
A TALE OF TWO HEROES Let’s face it. If you’re a guy, with friends, you’ve probably been a wing man. I’m not saying it’s the best position to be in. In fact, most of us hope that because we involuntarily…
