Diary of a Wingman - dating

Diary of a Wingman

A TALE OF TWO HEROES Let’s face it. If you’re a guy, with friends, you’ve probably been a wing man. I’m not saying it’s the best position to be in. In fact, most of us hope that because we involuntarily…

Opportunities for Victims of Sex Trafficking - sex trafficking

Opportunities for Victims of Sex Trafficking

WHAT CAN I DO? Sex Trafficking. The ripple effect is so wide spread that it can be difficult to find a part to play in the abolition of the slave trade. One looks at the approx 27 million men, women…

How Do I Prepare For A Breakup - dating

How Do I Prepare For A Breakup?

QUESTION I am in a year and a half long relationship and it is getting worse by the day. To prepare myself for a breakup, how can I prepare my body for it (lowering vasopressin or any bonding hormone that…

How Much Sex Talk Is Healthy - sex talk in dating

How Much Sex Talk Is Healthy?

QUESTION My boyfriend and I are talking a lot about sex and I also have a lot of sexual thoughts. I feel guilty about it because I don’t think it is what God would like. How normal is this?  …

I'm 40 and Still Waiting - 40 still single waiting

I’m 40 and Still Waiting

Question Since I came to Christ, I have been praying for a wife. It’s been 12 years. My past is very speckled (including homosexuality and porn addiction). I haven’t had a date in 9 years and I’m coming up on…

Hanging Out One-on-One - hanging out one on one

Hanging Out One-on-One?

QUESTION Is it okay to hang out with a friend of the opposite sex (one on one)? Or is it better to hang out in groups?   TEAM’S ANSWER Here are a few things that would be great to consider…

Victim to Victor - healing & restoration

Victim to Victor

FINDING FREEDOM I spent the first 12 years of my life in Northern Virginia. When I was only 10 years old, family members abused me. Before the abuse I was a pretty normal little girl: I loved to read, collect…

The 23 Year Old Virgin - sex

The 23 Year Old Virgin

“A 23 Year Old What?” A 23 year old virgin. How would you describe me? Desirable? Attractive? Pathetic? Inexperienced? Mature? Lucky? Wise? I guess this probably depends on your thoughts about virginity. Or maybe on your experience. Maybe you’re still…

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Part 2 - sex

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Part 2

In part one of this series we talked about our “sex needs,” followed by how to find our real needs in part two. This brings us to our last question: “So, if I don’t need sex, why does sex and/or sexual…

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way - masturbation

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way

Let’s be honest: When we ask, “How do I get my needs met in a healthy way?” what we’re probably really asking is: “How do I fulfill my sexual desire in a way that is satisfying, but not sinful?”   And…