The T-Rex In The Room - sex

The T-Rex In The Room

Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Here at Moral Revolution, we spend a great deal of time discussing our human needs. The body, soul, and spirit all have legitimate needs, too. Our bodies need air, food, water, shelter and human contact. Our…

Who Cares If I'm A Virgin - does virginity matter

Who Cares If I’m A Virgin?

“Why should I be a virgin anyway?” “It’s my life so who cares?” These are questions that ran through my mind as a young teenage girl…all of which were left unanswered, for me to figure out by myself. I had…

The Marriage Myth - marriage

The Marriage Myth

Let’s demystify something real quick: Sexual purity is not a “single-person” problem. It is a human problem. If you have a sex drive, you need to learn how to manage it healthfully. This is a fact that I am very…

Dating Dilemmas: Scanning the Racks - dating

Dating Dilemmas: Scanning the Racks

Are we dating or loving?Can we or should we be doing both? Are we looking to try on a ‘nice piece’ when we date, to see if it ‘suits’’ us, or are we tentatively, carefully and cautiously searching out the…

Child Prostitution, Abuse, and BDSM Porn - pornography

Child Prostitution, Abuse, and BDSM Porn

QUESTION As a child I was made a child prostitute, tortured regularly, and used for child porn. After a lot of therapy I am still addicted to BDSM porn. It calms me down while it is horrifying at the same time.…

Shame in Masturbating - masturbation

Shame in Masturbating

QUESTION  Why is it that when I masturbate, it brings me so much shame? Is that common?   SEX THERAPIST’S ANSWER That is a great question! You are definitely not alone in feeling shame when you masturbate – it is…

Blue Balls - blue balls

Blue Balls

QUESTION I’ve given up on masturbation, however, throughout daily life there are things that will arouse me and I eliminate those thoughts as soon as they come so I do not fall into lust. However, I’m now dealing with the…

My Spouse is Addicted to Porn … Help! - pornography

My Spouse is Addicted to Porn … Help!

QUESTION How do I move forward in my marriage? I have been married for 23 years and there has always been a third in our lives: porn! Any way he can get it, he would, and the Internet has opened…

How Do I Renew My Mind After A Porn Addiction - renew mind after porn addiction

How Do I Renew My Mind After A Porn Addiction?

QUESTION I stopped masturbating and watching pornography awhile ago and God set me free from it but the way I look, think about, and treat women is totally wrong. It’s like porn has left an imprint on me of wrong…

Sex in Marriage … After a Porn Addiction - sex marriage after porn addiction

Sex in Marriage … After a Porn Addiction

QUESTION I feel God has delivered me from pornography, but after I have sex with my wife, I feel like I’m fighting those same demons again! Right now we expect different things from sex. However, I feel the most victorious…