QUICK FIX Single. Hurting. And independent. A great combination for masturbation. Or any sexual activity for that matter. Fortunately, my oath to singleness kept me from further sexual activity, but it’s all the same. A band aid applied to the…
TRADING SHAME FOR JOY From an early age, sex became an interesting and a secret desire. It wasn’t until I was in middle school that it became a daily struggle in my life. I began masturbating every night and it…
GOING THROUGH SHAME TO GET TO GOD I remember the first time I masturbated. I was on a school trip to Germany, sharing a testosterone-charged room with my peers. We were all competing to prove that we were making it…
THE AUTHOR OF MY HEART Most of my life, I have attempted to control, stifle, and sometimes completely disown my desires. Unfortunately, when dealing with sexual desire and longing for intimacy, I was unaware that they could be expressed in…
FASTING AND PRAYER? NOT MY SOLUTION I fasted and prayed for twelve years, hoping that somehow the Lord would keep me from looking at porn. I wanted Him to keep me from being tempted. That didn’t quite happen. I would have…
Isolation Never Helped Anyone Like a family relative you keep locked in the basement, porn was only let out when no one was home. Growing up poor as the chunky pastor’s daughter in a very liberal, small town set me…
WHAT ABOUT PORNOGRAPHY? Pornography, the new drug of our time, affects nearly every household in the western world. If you’re looking for information on pornography, including why it’s so prevalent and pervasive, you’ve come to the right place. Keep reading…
Being Real About Pornography I fasted and prayed for twelve years that somehow the Lord would keep me from looking at porn. I wanted Him to keep me from being tempted. That didnt’ happen. I would have taken some kind…