10 Warning Signs You Might Cross The Line
Staying faithful to my wife was a solemn promise I made to her before God. I utterly intended to keep that promise to the end of our days. I lived without doubt that nothing could ever tempt me to do…
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Real Love Satisfies
When I look back on my life, I see that when I was in relationship with someone, I was focused on how much could I get, and how much would they give. After I took all I could out of…
The Economics of Sex
In the most sexualized culture to date, outside (and even inside) the church community, it’s almost scandalous to suggest that you’re saving yourself until marriage. People privy to this information open their eyes to your sentiments as if you’ve just popped…
What is Your Time?
Do you know how important timing is in God’s plan? All throughout the Bible we see examples of God’s instructions being specific in action and timing. Our lives are designed in the same way and part of succeeding is knowing…
A Life Sentence
Have you ever noticed that wedding bands look a lot like tiny handcuffs? I’m being funny. But, you have to admit, it’s an accurate description of the covenant they represent. Not the prison part…the never-leaving, never-forsaking, “death-do-us-part” part. Unfortunately, many…
I’m A Christian With A Sex Drive
With God and A Sex Drive I’m a Christian with a sex drive. Growing up, I believed the highest form of piety was giving up your sex drive… Completely! To never look at anyone of the opposite, or the Lord…
One Day at a Time
I never learned about love and intimacy and being romantic, nor to love my wife as Christ loved the church. If my parents taught me about that kind of love, I missed it. I heard about love and intimacy and…
Self Awareness
Do you say or do things without thinking how it will affect or impact the people around you? The dictionary definition of self-awareness is “conscious knowledge of one’s own character, feelings, motives, and desires.” I also believe it’s having a…
Single and Hating It?
There are a couple things every single person needs to know in order to thrive while single 1. If you are waiting on a husband or wife to be happy, then you’ve already began worshiping an idol that will never…
The 23 Year Old Virgin
“A 23 Year Old What?” A 23 year old virgin. How would you describe me? Desirable? Attractive? Pathetic? Inexperienced? Mature? Lucky? Wise? I guess this probably depends on your thoughts about virginity. Or maybe on your experience. Maybe you’re still…
Who Cares If I’m A Virgin?
“Why should I be a virgin anyway?” “It’s my life so who cares?” These are questions that ran through my mind as a young teenage girl…all of which were left unanswered, for me to figure out by myself. I had…
The Marriage Myth
Let’s demystify something real quick: Sexual purity is not a “single-person” problem. It is a human problem. If you have a sex drive, you need to learn how to manage it healthfully. This is a fact that I am very…