How Do I Prepare For A Breakup?
QUESTION I am in a year and a half long relationship and it is getting worse by the day. To prepare myself for a breakup, how can I prepare my body for it (lowering vasopressin or any bonding hormone that…
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How Much Sex Talk Is Healthy?
QUESTION My boyfriend and I are talking a lot about sex and I also have a lot of sexual thoughts. I feel guilty about it because I don’t think it is what God would like. How normal is this? …
I’m 40 and Still Waiting
Question Since I came to Christ, I have been praying for a wife. It’s been 12 years. My past is very speckled (including homosexuality and porn addiction). I haven’t had a date in 9 years and I’m coming up on…
Hanging Out One-on-One?
QUESTION Is it okay to hang out with a friend of the opposite sex (one on one)? Or is it better to hang out in groups? TEAM’S ANSWER Here are a few things that would be great to consider…
The 23 Year Old Virgin
“A 23 Year Old What?” A 23 year old virgin. How would you describe me? Desirable? Attractive? Pathetic? Inexperienced? Mature? Lucky? Wise? I guess this probably depends on your thoughts about virginity. Or maybe on your experience. Maybe you’re still…
The T-Rex In The Room
Getting Our Needs Met In A Healthy Way Here at Moral Revolution, we spend a great deal of time discussing our human needs. The body, soul, and spirit all have legitimate needs, too. Our bodies need air, food, water, shelter and human contact. Our…
Who Cares If I’m A Virgin?
“Why should I be a virgin anyway?” “It’s my life so who cares?” These are questions that ran through my mind as a young teenage girl…all of which were left unanswered, for me to figure out by myself. I had…
The Marriage Myth
Let’s demystify something real quick: Sexual purity is not a “single-person” problem. It is a human problem. If you have a sex drive, you need to learn how to manage it healthfully. This is a fact that I am very…
Dating Dilemmas: Scanning the Racks
Are we dating or loving?Can we or should we be doing both? Are we looking to try on a ‘nice piece’ when we date, to see if it ‘suits’’ us, or are we tentatively, carefully and cautiously searching out the…
Sexting
SEXTING QUESTION Is sexting or sending naked pictures wrong to do between a boyfriend and girlfriend? What if it makes them feel closer or more connected? I have read in the Bible of stories where someone saw somebody else naked…
Communication Heals Relationships
I’M NOT PERFECT, BUT I’LL BE THE BEST ME I CAN BE In my first relationship, we were both young and had few tools for communicating our feelings and needs. I would make jokes with her like I would with…
Rebuilding a Relationship
PUTTING THINGS INTO REVERSE About three and a half years ago, a sequence of events began that would ultimately change my life forever. About that time, I was living with my girlfriend who, in all honesty, I hooked up with in…