Seeking the Best For Others
Growing up, when my parents would ask me a question like, “Why did you put that there?” I’d hear an attack. I also learned as a little child that when the chocolate got put out, I should shove as much…
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8 Things I Would Tell Someone Who is Struggling With Porn
Pornography can feel like a python squeezing the life out of you. I know first hand, I was caught in the trap for years. The struggle can feel like a vicious cycle that pulls you deeper into hurt and isolation.…
Restoration of Love
About three and a half years ago, a sequence of events began that would ultimately change my life forever. About that time, I was living with my girlfriend who, in all honesty, I hooked up with in a one night…
Does Siri know you better than your friends?
Who are you connecting with? Did you know that the average person checks their phone 110 times a day?* I was in a bit of disbelief when I heard this, until I paid attention. It didn’t matter if I was…
4 More Guys You Should Never Date
MR. WRONG (CONTINUED) Just because we had so much fun writing our last list, 5 Guys You Should Never Date, we wanted to hit you with another list. Your welcome! Here are 4 More Guys You Should Never Date. 1.…
5 Guys You Should Never Date
MR. WRONG So we’ve all had our fair share of scheming, sketchy exes. You know, those people you run into 5 years later and thank God you got out when you could. But why do we date those people?…
Dreaming About My Husband: Is it Really a Good Idea?
QUESTION I am wondering if it’s not so good to imagine my husband, our honeymoon night and stuff like that. It just stirs me more to live for purity with the future in mind. TEAM’S ANSWER This is…
Coloring in Your Colorful Past
Whatever you’ve done, whatever interesting decision you made in the past, you might be like me: so far removed from the old you, so unfamiliar to your ‘old ways’ that when you recite stories of how you used to be,…
Managing Your Thought Life
QUESTION I want to know, is it normal to fantasize sexually about my future wife? If not, what steps do I need to take to stop? TEAM’S ANSWER It is perfectly “normal” to have sexual thoughts come on your…
Risk > List
END LISTING When people ask me what I look for in a woman, I find myself stumbling over my words. What they really want to hear is my list, but whenever I forget to mention physical qualities I’m labeled “holy…