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Common Myths About Purity Culture 📺+ 🎧
Common Myths About Purity Culture 📺+ 🎧

Join Debra Fileta who is a licensed professional counselor who is focused on relationships, and an advocate for “healthy people make healthy relationships”. In this podcast Debra, Caitlin and Sloane dive into the common myths about purity culture and break the boxes surrounding them. “It isn’t a toxic purity culture, it’s toxic shame culture. Purity is not toxic, it is the shame, the isolation, the hiding.” Sex is so sacred and is created to be beautiful within the perimeters of marriage. In Debra’s story, shame and guilt didn’t help her break free of sexual sin but the realization that sex is God’s gift and is beautiful in the right place and time. Perspective is empowering, before marriage, but also how it impacts us within a marriage. It is time for all of us to break out of the shame of our histories and step into the fullness God has for us!!!

If you want to hear more from Debra her Instagram handle is @truelovedates

Resources:

True Love Dates by Debra Fileta

Choosing Marriage by Debra Fileta

Love in every season by Debra Fileta

The Naked Truth about Sexuality by Havilah Cunnington

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Dating, Identity, Podcast 🎧, Video 📺Debra Fileta#purity, #datingComment
From Casual to Committed 📺+🎧
From Casual to Committed 📺+🎧

Join Damien Giacchino, who is the associate pastor at Real Life Church in Sacramento California and has his masters degree in counseling. Damien joins Caitlin Zick and Sloane Wilson and shares his story of how the Lord restored his life from living a worldly life to encountering the Lord and having his story be redeemed. During his pursuit of the Lord, he was given the message of the importance of not awakening love too early. He talks about the effect of hookup culture, the impact of having the voice of fathers/mothers in our lives, the pursuit of abstinence, how to manage loneliness while single and much more!! If you want to hear more from Damien his Instagram handle is @dgiacchino.

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Dating, Podcast 🎧, Video 📺Damien Giacchino#dating, #relationships, #casualComment
Attachment Styles 📺+🎧
Attachment Styles 📺+🎧

Dr. Margaret Nagib, Christian Clinical Psychologist, joins Caitlin Zick and Sloane Wilson as they dive into attachment styles. Attachment styles the base of how you relate to people from childhood. They create patterns of how you think, feel, and respond to people in relationship based on what you learned when you were younger. Dr. Margaret talks about the different types of attachment styles, and how you can identify which you relate to the most and why.

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Podcast 🎧, Video 📺, DatingMargaret Nagib#attachment, #dating, #childhoodComment
The Science Behind Sex | Honest Talks pt. 2 📺+🎧
The Science Behind Sex | Honest Talks pt. 2 📺+🎧

What causes you to get triggered? How do decisions you make pre-marriage impact your marriage? The pain or the pleasure during your first experience of an event creates a mental pathway that your brain later takes you down because it's the path of least resistance. This means EVEN if the situation isn't the same your brain/body can still react as if it is. This week's podcast feature's our directors, Cole and Caitlin Zick as they dive into the science behind sexuality and the scripture, and go after helping you become consciously aware of your subconscious "why", so you can know why you do what you do, feel what you feel, and how you respond the way you do. It’s now on all streaming platforms and YouTube!

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Podcast 🎧, Video 📺Cole & Caitlin ZickComment
Honest Talk - Sexual Histories 📺+🎧
Honest Talk - Sexual Histories 📺+🎧

Cole and Caitlin Zick invite us into a very raw and authentic take of their stories. What would it look like if parents healthily and intentionally talked about sex where they understand God’s full design for sexuality and that He said YES, not no? They’ll talk about helpful tools for taking an inventory on the impact your childhood had on your current perspective of relationship and sexuality. In that, the depth of your vulnerability will determine the completeness of your healing and wholeness in your marriage.

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Podcast 🎧, Video 📺, Marriage, SexCole & Caitlin Zick#sexualpast, #sex, #healingComment
How to Identify Trauma & When to Get Help 📺+🎧
How to Identify Trauma & When to Get Help 📺+🎧

The negative stigma around going to counseling or therapy is finally starting to lift. Caitlin Zick interviews Dr. Margaret Nagib, Christian Clinical Psychologist, about how to know when or why to go to a counselor. If you find yourself still stuck after doing the best you know how, it may be time to find a counselor. Dr. Margaret and Caitlin also spend time digging into the topic of trauma. How to identify trauma in your life or from your past and the side effects you may be seeing in your life from unresolved trauma. Caitlin also shares from her story and they unpack the events, experiences and effects from trauma in her teenage years. This conversation is a great “starter” for a potential need to discover and dive into more. Want to connect with Dr. Margaret Nagib? You can find her resources or book an online session here at: thedunamisproject.org You can hear more on this topic for pastors and leaders in the Sex. Church. Culture. Vol. II E-Course (SexChurchCulture.com) from Dr. Margaret Nagib or for the females at The More Gathering (TheMoreGathering.com).

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Podcast 🎧, Video 📺, Healing & RestorationMargaret Nagib#trauma, #healing, #drmargaretnagibComment
Soul Ties 📺+🎧
Soul Ties 📺+🎧

Tom Crandall and Cole Zick address the reality of what happens when you form an intimate sexual connection outside of marriage, and the strong influence that can have on us and our life choices. How can we become free from shame? What can we do to move past attachments that we have with people from our past that we’re tied to because we’ve had sexual experiences with them?

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Podcast 🎧, Video 📺, Dating, Healing & Restoration, Identity, Sex, RelationshipsTom Crandall#soulties, #relationships, #restorationComment