Moral Revolution – The naked truth about sexual purity

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
I'm gay. I've tried to like women but still find men more of a turn on, I'm confused as to if God is OK with me being gay? Did He really create me like this? HELP!

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
I feel God has delivered me from pornography but after I have sex with my wife I feel like I'm fighting those same demons again! Right now we expect different things from sex. I feel the most victorious when we abstain all together! How can we move to our sex being more love centered and intimate?

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
I am a virgin, but I have masturbated. I am working on it and trying to stop, but I was wondering if when I do get married and have sex if masturbating will have effected that? Also, is masturbating together with your husband wrong?

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
Will I be to small down there to fit his penis?

Sex Therapist's Answer

The answer is no. The vaginal opening is made from muscles that surround the vagina that contract or relax. When a woman gets aroused, the vagina actually increases in size both in length and in width to be able to accept an erect penis. Remember, you are made to be able to have a baby - the baby's head, which is bigger than a penis, comes through that opening.

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
I have quit masturbating and feel as if i am lead to stay that way, but if I wanted to masturbate, would that mean I have sinned or would that mean I went against myself? I quit pornography but am not sure whether it tempts me masturbate?

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
Yesterday I told my wife that in months prior I had masturbated to women who I felt respect me more than she does. I called the desire to be worshiped the desire to be respected. Once I realized that I was desiring to be worshiped the problem left for good. What is the best way for us to heal?

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
I'm a married woman, 45. My husband is not very interested in having sex. He likes to relax, read, etc. So, I masturbate a lot and in time I discovered anal pleasures. Can you tell me your opinion about anal stimulations inside marriage?

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
Just found out my teen son (16) is masturbating often, & has done it while communicating with a girl doing the same thing on FB. Im a little freaked out. He knows I know now & is upset w me for reading his FB. My husband is going to talk w him & we r getting your book & dvd series, any advice?

Reader's Question

Dear Sex Therapist,
I have been a devoted christian my whole life and purity has always been my highest priority. This year I started dating an amazing Christian guy, but we just compromise too much.We havent had sex, but we have been very close. Im scared.. I have prayed so much and I dont know what to do.