Moral Revolution

{ Dating & Sex }

My virginity was taken. How do I tell my boyfriend?

Reader's Question Dear Sex Therapist, A few years ago when I had first started going out with my ex-boyfriend he raped me (or had sex with me without my consent). After that I felt like I might as well have sex with ...

My boyfriend may still be addicted to porn. Help!

Reader's Question Dear Sex Therapist, My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. Six months into our relationship he confessed that he was addicted to porn. He told me that God had cleansed him and he is ...

Molested as a child. Seeking healing.

Is it normal to be molested? I was forced to do sexual things as a child. I have only mentioned it to two people, both times I felt foolish for saying anything. I was left feeling like this happens to everyone; I ...

My Son Had His First Wet Dream - Help!

What do you tell a virgin 14 year old boy that says he had a wet dream with a girl?

Gender Confusion

Reader's Question Dear Sex Therapist, Right now in my life I'm so confused. I feel like my sexuality is all over the place. I like girls and I like guys. I also have gender issues. I don't want to be a girl and don't ...

Maintaing an Erection

Reader's Question Dear Sex Therapist, I recently got married and during my honeymoon my wife and I were in the shower and I lost my erection. It happened later during sex. It terrifies me now that it will happen ...

Trauma and Trust

Reader's Question Dear Sex Therapist, Almost a year ago my boyfriend drugged me after a night of drinking (his roommate is a drug dealer). He must of slipped it in my drink because I can hardly remember anything. The ...

Why people stay stuck in addictive cycles ... and how to get out of them

Reader's Question Dear Sex Therapist, I've been married for 3 years to a man who has been addicted to pornography. He has accountability, is trying to quit, but it never changes and it never ends. I feel like half my ...

Masturbation and my relationship with God.

Reader's Question Dear Sex Therapist, I'm a 16 year old girl and I have some questions about my sex drive. I've never had a boyfriend or anything like that ... because of this I'm kind of obsessed with boys and I ...

I'm drawn to older women. Why?

Reader's Question Dear Sex Therapist, I have a desire for affirmation and love from older women (mid 30's and up). I'm 20. Why is this? Is it common? How should I deal with these feelings in a Godly way? I just find ...