Here a few things I am learning: By not ignoring my sex drive has forced me to learn SO SO much! When I realized that sex isn’t just about my physical pleasure, but my emotional connection, porn became disgusting. Now I get more pleasure from the connection, than the physical feelings. All men can learn to desire this emotional connection, more than the physical act of sex. One key: learn to fearlessly open myself up to women, and then go dancing or sing a song to them, or something I'm too embarrassed to do by myself! All men can learn to desire this emotional connection, more than the physical act of sex. Learning to love women is also learning to love God. I've stopped just focusing on doing more typical “ministry” works and focus everything I am on learning to love them. Set a goal to discover a love deeper than you can imagine being possible, and then go a little deeper. Focusing on all that my wife and I will be doing the impossible and changing the world together!