Moral Revolution – The naked truth about sexual purity

Reader's Question

Dear Team
Is it okay to date around to know what you want in a future spouse? What do you guys believe?

Team's Answer

That is a great question. I am glad that you are seeking insight on that subject. The answer to that question is not a black & white answer. Moral Revolution’s stance is that it is fine to date different people to know what you want in a future spouse as long as you have figured out who you are, have established a plan, and learned to live in community.

Reader's Question

Dear Team
How will I 'know' if a man is someone worth marrying? There is a man pursuing me intensely, but I am so uncertain about whether or not God wants us to be together.

Reader's Question

Dear Team
I have heard many things on sex, and we want to be holy and godly and pure. We just are not sure about different ways and if it is bad to try new things when we were married?

Reader's Question

Dear Team
I have no clue about sex, and how many ways can u have sex?

Reader's Question

Dear Team
Is there vaginal sex from behind? Where is the vagina?

Team's Answer

Yes, there is vaginal sex from behind. The most used term for the position is referred to as "doggy style". The vagina is located in the pelvic region of a woman's body (similar to the location of a man's penis). However, a woman's body is a little more complex than you may be are aware of.

Reader's Question

Dear Team
What is the difference between lust and sexual attraction? As a guy, I am attracted to women, but if I am ever attracted I seem to struggle with lust, too. I just cannot separate them. I know God created us to be attracted to the opposite sex without lusting after them, but I am struggling with this.

Team's Answer

Thank you so much for your vulnerability in asking this question and for sharing your struggle.

Reader's Question

Dear Team
My boyfriend isn't a Christian, which means we have different moral values (sex). We have talked about it. He said he could respect my view, but he couldn't agree with me. Lately, we had a discussion over the hymen restoration and he retorted it. I doubt how can I firmly believe this relationship?

Reader's Question

Dear Team
My boyfriend and I are making a point to establish good limits in our relationship. We talk about "problem areas" and what things are too over stimulating for each other etc, but he seems to get erections a lot when we're just hanging out. How do I approach this or talk to him about it?

Team's Answer

Thank you for being so open about your situation. I applaud your vulnerability.

Dear Team
Ok so I was reading chapter 8 in the Moral revolution book this morning and in the section titled "Fatal Attraction" where it talks about the people that no matter how much affection you give them its never enough and sometimes they get jealous of other people you give affection and they end up draining you...I am one of those. What can I do?

Dear Team
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and he is a wonderful man. However I am giving him everything, but he is holding back on his end. I am sure that I love him. Should I tell him first? Should I wait for him to feel the same? How can I protect my vulnerable heart?